Child(ren) Held Hostage

I hope this Blog will prove helpful in the recognition and useful in deterrence of Parental Alienation.

I will undoubtedly be using this blog in part as a therapeutic venue. I will also use this blog as a communication portal to my children if they should choose to use it.

"Parental Alienation is about parents who place their own selfish needs above those of their defenseless children and in doing so, they deny them their right to love and be loved by both parents. Alienators do not fit the stereotype of the deficient and ill-equipment parent. Instead, these parents are generally articulate, resourceful, and competent in all other aspects of their lives – except in the realm of parenting. In fact, these individuals might easily be mistaken for ideal parents, except to the properly informed, because they profess love and concern for their children. What sets these individuals apart from other dysfunctional parents is their overwhelming commitment to meeting their own needs first. In doing so, they destroy the relationship their children have with the other parent – at whatever cost. ” Dr. Reena Sommer - Internationally Recognized Divorce and Custody Consultant
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Friday, December 11, 2009

Court ordered telephone contact

This morning as I woke the first thing on my mind, as it always has been, I hope my children are safe! The next, as it usually is, how could a mother do this to her own children. Unleash her anger and hatred on my children for what she believes to benifit her and my children. The answer is as simple as it is hard to comprehend. There are psycological terms for this behavior.

Regardless, once again my daughter and I didn't have the court ordered telephone contact last night. I haven't had any of the court ordered telephone contact with my daughter since the order was signed by a judge in early 2001. I can only speculate as to why there has been no contact.

My dearest daughter, (Brooke)
                      
                     This is your DAD. I called you at your mother's phone at the schedule time last night, (twice). The only number I have to contact you is (336) 829-1148 and was given to me by your mother. There is no mistake that this number is your mother's cell phone as others have contact with her when called by her and to her.
                    When you care to see my detailed phone records, they are available for you. I have saved the last 10 years of phone records and will continue to save them.  I promise that I didn't forget you this time or any of the others. I miss you and love you so much. I hope you had a wonderful day yesterday and a better day today.

Love DAD

3 comments:

HMW said...

Well, I think this is well written and have faith that one day this evil poor excuse for human flesh will one day reap what she has sewn. Evil is not something most of us agree with or even attempt to understand but it does live in the darkness of our surroundings. She is evil, heartless and yet a mother. It is not in the control of us to get her to be a good mother but yet realize that no matter what the children have had no choice in picking the parents they have. They must always deal with the habd given to them. Remember this when you want to give in or give up. Brooke will never have the choice of quiting. You may not agree with me but this is the truth. We may never like the parents we have but are almost destined to love them for what they are.

Anonymous said...

I call my daughter every night at 7PM and have not spoken to her in a long time.

I hope one day that society will recognize the gross evil and abuse done to children by people who cut fathers off from their children. As more and more men, grandparents, children experience this perhaps one day we will get justice and a shaming of those who made careers turning a legal process into a mechanism to abuse kids and separate them from their fathers and grandparents.

God bless and stay strong.

mcpea1 said...

Thank you for your comments, and God Bless all.