Child(ren) Held Hostage

I hope this Blog will prove helpful in the recognition and useful in deterrence of Parental Alienation.

I will undoubtedly be using this blog in part as a therapeutic venue. I will also use this blog as a communication portal to my children if they should choose to use it.

"Parental Alienation is about parents who place their own selfish needs above those of their defenseless children and in doing so, they deny them their right to love and be loved by both parents. Alienators do not fit the stereotype of the deficient and ill-equipment parent. Instead, these parents are generally articulate, resourceful, and competent in all other aspects of their lives – except in the realm of parenting. In fact, these individuals might easily be mistaken for ideal parents, except to the properly informed, because they profess love and concern for their children. What sets these individuals apart from other dysfunctional parents is their overwhelming commitment to meeting their own needs first. In doing so, they destroy the relationship their children have with the other parent – at whatever cost. ” Dr. Reena Sommer - Internationally Recognized Divorce and Custody Consultant
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Friday, December 18, 2009

Holiday madness

As I figured, a gray area in the court order. I called the school at 9:30 this morning and asked them to get you the message that I would be picking you up. When I arrived at the school you didn't show up so I went into the school and they said they gave you the message and you knew that I would be there. Your mother picked you up early. When I asked you if you got the message that I would be there to pick you up you replied with a hateful yes and that it wasn't 2 or 3 so it didn't matter anyway.
                   IT HAD JUST STARTED TO ICE AND SNOW AT THE SCHOOL. It was really snowing like crazy and your mother had to get you and your 3 year old sister out in the ice and snow 2 and a half hours later. In the past your mother claimed that she wasn't going to risk her children's life bringing them out in the dangerous weather. She had the same vehichle then as she does now. I have a 4 wheel all wheel drive and have 30 years expeience driving.

I recieved a call from DS (GAL) a half hour before I picked you up at Exxon. He informed me that you didn't want to go to PA., as I suggested that might be a possibility during our session with the Dr. on the previous Wednesday. What was that all about? We know that it was a setup huh!

We took you to your freinds house where you went sledding.
Dinner was ready after about 3 hours. The group of people you were sledding with joined us. You and two of the girls made a Gingerbread House and had a great time doing it.
      
       You refused to be in the picture of the masterpiece so I took pictures of the girls and the completed project. Good job! Maybe one day you will be in some pictures too.  For the first time I didn't press you to be in the pictures. It started to be a hassel to get you in any pictures so I just told you to move completely out of the way so that I may get the proud artists in the picture.

I am sorry that you won't be in any of the great pictures after you helped so much.

I love you,

Dad
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