Child(ren) Held Hostage

I hope this Blog will prove helpful in the recognition and useful in deterrence of Parental Alienation.

I will undoubtedly be using this blog in part as a therapeutic venue. I will also use this blog as a communication portal to my children if they should choose to use it.

"Parental Alienation is about parents who place their own selfish needs above those of their defenseless children and in doing so, they deny them their right to love and be loved by both parents. Alienators do not fit the stereotype of the deficient and ill-equipment parent. Instead, these parents are generally articulate, resourceful, and competent in all other aspects of their lives – except in the realm of parenting. In fact, these individuals might easily be mistaken for ideal parents, except to the properly informed, because they profess love and concern for their children. What sets these individuals apart from other dysfunctional parents is their overwhelming commitment to meeting their own needs first. In doing so, they destroy the relationship their children have with the other parent – at whatever cost. ” Dr. Reena Sommer - Internationally Recognized Divorce and Custody Consultant
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Saturday, February 27, 2010

Clarity...

I make no mistake about having custody of you (my daughter). I don't dare entertain the thought of actually obtaining custody of you.
With the continued things that I am hearing and some of the things I am experiencing I believe more than ever that you need protection from the harmful enviorment you are living in.I don't have many answers or suggestions though. Atleast nothing I could say or suggestions that I could make would change what is happening or has happened to you.
I believe in the things I have read and studied concerning PAS. It all fits. Its not all your fault that you were placed in this terrible position. My heart goes out to you little girl.
I want your pain to go away. The best opportunity that you have for me to remain in your life is for me to fight for you and your rights.

I ask you, what do I have to gain by remaining in your life? There have been very little rewards trying to be a part of your life. We spend lots of money on litigation that could be used elswhere for much more enjoyable things.
I have used some of our time together to take you to a Dr. to help you through some of the things going on in your life. You have met that help with resistance yet your mom takes you to a new theropist . This new theropist makes allegations against me and your stepmom based upon her observations and talks with you and your mom. This theropist makes recomendations based solely on those obsevations without ever having met me or my camp so to speak.

I am frustrated! I am however convinced that it will all work out for the best. I have to believe this because if I don't and I lose site of  the ultimate goal, you will be lost forever.

I love you Brooke,
DAD

5 comments:

AmandaH said...

The only thing i can remotely think is that by showing here that you are willing to fight is what shows tou love her. People will find ways to corrupt all situations. As long as she sees what she is blinded into seeing there wont be change. With you fighting though later on it will show that no matter how many times her mom tells her you dont love her this shows that it isnt true

Anonymous said...

Thanks for being a supporter and you will be a better parent for it too.

Anonymous said...

we need more people like you

lucia said...

To Matt,Marisa and Bruck with Love Forever Lucia,Tim,Angelica.-During our lives we're faced with so many elements as well,we experience so many satbacks,and fight such a hand-to-hand battle with failure,head down in the rain,just trying to stay upright and have a little HOPE.The tour isn't just a bike race,it test you mentaly,physically,and even morally.don't give up!!!As you know,there is always light at the end of EVERY TUNNEL.DON'T GIVE UP,DON'T EVER GIVE UP.WITH LOVE TO MATT,MARISA AND BRUCK ,LUCIA,TIM,ANGELICA.WHAT ABOU LOVE??????????????

mcpea1 said...

Thanks guys. By the way it is BROOKE. That is the correct spelling of her name. Knowing about your family and the trials you have been through, we thank you for taking the time and initiative to read and then post to this blog. Thanks again and we love you guys too.