Child(ren) Held Hostage

I hope this Blog will prove helpful in the recognition and useful in deterrence of Parental Alienation.

I will undoubtedly be using this blog in part as a therapeutic venue. I will also use this blog as a communication portal to my children if they should choose to use it.

"Parental Alienation is about parents who place their own selfish needs above those of their defenseless children and in doing so, they deny them their right to love and be loved by both parents. Alienators do not fit the stereotype of the deficient and ill-equipment parent. Instead, these parents are generally articulate, resourceful, and competent in all other aspects of their lives – except in the realm of parenting. In fact, these individuals might easily be mistaken for ideal parents, except to the properly informed, because they profess love and concern for their children. What sets these individuals apart from other dysfunctional parents is their overwhelming commitment to meeting their own needs first. In doing so, they destroy the relationship their children have with the other parent – at whatever cost. ” Dr. Reena Sommer - Internationally Recognized Divorce and Custody Consultant
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Tuesday, March 9, 2010

We are thinking about you!

We think about you all the time wondering how you are and what you are doing. We hope that you are okay. We are so sorry that you are in a place where you are having to prove your loyalty to whom ever requires it.
No kid should have to go through that abuse. We will be out on the road again on our way north. We will be visiting places where we have yet to travel. Its really exciting but something is still missing. Our lives were filled with joy to see you experiencing new places such as the Smithsonian. You really learned a lot more than you think during our travels. Now is the time to learn as it gets a little more difficult as you get older.

I am so sorry that you aren't getting those opportunities to experience new places and cultures. Your mom had never been anywhere other than Myrtle Beach before I met her. I tried to share with her some of the joys of travel and all it has to offer but she rejected it all the way. I suppose she had her reasons.

I don't think it fair or reasonable to you to limit your interests.

We will take lots of pictures and some video and may even post some online in hopes that one day you will see it. We hope that it will peak your curiosity which will entice you to find out for yourself what the world is like outside the box that you will be in.

The mind is a terrible thing to waste and it's a horrible thing to have it controlled. You should have been encouraged and allowed to benifit by having your father an active part of your life. That is not the case here and options are running out to make that happen.

We don't expect much when it comes to having you around but that doesn't stop the hope and praying for it.

We love you Brooke!
DAD

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