Child(ren) Held Hostage

I hope this Blog will prove helpful in the recognition and useful in deterrence of Parental Alienation.

I will undoubtedly be using this blog in part as a therapeutic venue. I will also use this blog as a communication portal to my children if they should choose to use it.

"Parental Alienation is about parents who place their own selfish needs above those of their defenseless children and in doing so, they deny them their right to love and be loved by both parents. Alienators do not fit the stereotype of the deficient and ill-equipment parent. Instead, these parents are generally articulate, resourceful, and competent in all other aspects of their lives – except in the realm of parenting. In fact, these individuals might easily be mistaken for ideal parents, except to the properly informed, because they profess love and concern for their children. What sets these individuals apart from other dysfunctional parents is their overwhelming commitment to meeting their own needs first. In doing so, they destroy the relationship their children have with the other parent – at whatever cost. ” Dr. Reena Sommer - Internationally Recognized Divorce and Custody Consultant
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Saturday, January 15, 2011

The Passing of Great Grandpa 01/09/2011

From the time I had you Brooke I have had the opportunity to take you to see the great grandparents that your mother alienated from her family because they would not follow her orders to stop the visitation between you and I.
Though your great grandpa was your moms family we shared a friendship that your mom could not break. He was a loyal and honorable person. He lost sharing the last years of life with his son and his great grandson (Matthew Jr.) and the members of your moms influence. I am proud to say that your great grandpa knew you because I believed that you should visit with them and took you as time permitted.
As I am told, your g. grandpa saw your mother in C C's Pizza and asked g. grandma who she was after your mom spoke to your g. grandma. He didn't even know her. It was too late to make amends.

You held a special place in his heart.
 
Ken Jenkins died today at 6pm 1/15/2011. You had a chance to talk to him on the telephone a couple of times. I thought it important for you to at least speak to him. We never had the chance to take you to meet him. Over the years that will become another loss for you and your brother.

I Love You Brooke and Matthew

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