Child(ren) Held Hostage

I hope this Blog will prove helpful in the recognition and useful in deterrence of Parental Alienation.

I will undoubtedly be using this blog in part as a therapeutic venue. I will also use this blog as a communication portal to my children if they should choose to use it.

"Parental Alienation is about parents who place their own selfish needs above those of their defenseless children and in doing so, they deny them their right to love and be loved by both parents. Alienators do not fit the stereotype of the deficient and ill-equipment parent. Instead, these parents are generally articulate, resourceful, and competent in all other aspects of their lives – except in the realm of parenting. In fact, these individuals might easily be mistaken for ideal parents, except to the properly informed, because they profess love and concern for their children. What sets these individuals apart from other dysfunctional parents is their overwhelming commitment to meeting their own needs first. In doing so, they destroy the relationship their children have with the other parent – at whatever cost. ” Dr. Reena Sommer - Internationally Recognized Divorce and Custody Consultant
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Thursday, July 28, 2011

Sadness

Well Matthew, the end of child support payments on/for you has arrived. Unfortunately the ending of child support still doesn't fix the larger issues. I suppose in time that you might find someway to figure things out for yourself. To begin the heeling process will be tough for you and I wish I could be of help. I don't see that happening, yet that wish will never go away.
The pain will never go away for me. The pain of not having you in my life, the pain of not knowing the truth about paternity, the pain of all the lost years with you, the pain of the unknown suffering that you have endured and not having been there to help. I could name numerous reasons for my pain but it would lead to what would sound like I was bashing your mother and that is not why I started this blog.
I would often wish for things to have turned out different but the handwriting was on the wall. I hope that one day you and your sister will search and read through the court documents and the documents that I have and realize that I did everything humanly possible to remain in your lives and to be a positive influence in your lives.
I would pray and ask that you and your sister try to understand the reasons things happened as they did. Don't have hate in your hearts for anyone to include your mother and her family.

I think about you two all the time,

Me
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