Child(ren) Held Hostage

I hope this Blog will prove helpful in the recognition and useful in deterrence of Parental Alienation.

I will undoubtedly be using this blog in part as a therapeutic venue. I will also use this blog as a communication portal to my children if they should choose to use it.

"Parental Alienation is about parents who place their own selfish needs above those of their defenseless children and in doing so, they deny them their right to love and be loved by both parents. Alienators do not fit the stereotype of the deficient and ill-equipment parent. Instead, these parents are generally articulate, resourceful, and competent in all other aspects of their lives – except in the realm of parenting. In fact, these individuals might easily be mistaken for ideal parents, except to the properly informed, because they profess love and concern for their children. What sets these individuals apart from other dysfunctional parents is their overwhelming commitment to meeting their own needs first. In doing so, they destroy the relationship their children have with the other parent – at whatever cost. ” Dr. Reena Sommer - Internationally Recognized Divorce and Custody Consultant
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Wednesday, February 15, 2012

Today's thoughts...

Do you remember your Afican American friend in WS that lived near us? Do you remember the fit you threw, how horribly you treated me because I wouldn't allow you to go to her house for a sleepover? You treated us with such disrespect and we still wouldn't give in to your demands.

I no longer have reason to hide the whys from you. I am your father and I was supposed to protect you at all costs! Even if it meant that you would continue to alienate me from your life. Unfortunately, others also used my parenting decisions as an avenue for furthering their alienation tactics.

Your friends uncle lived with her, her sister and her mom during this time that you wanted so desperately to stay over at their apartment.

While researching the neighbors, neighborhood, and surrounding neighborhoods, your friends uncle appeared on a sex offender registry and his conviction was a result of the sexual assault of a minor. After further investigation it was determined that it was your friend who had been assaulted.

Thank God that I made the decisions that I did. My job as your father was to protect you even if it meant you hated me because of it.

We love and miss you Brooke and I forgive you.

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