Child(ren) Held Hostage

I hope this Blog will prove helpful in the recognition and useful in deterrence of Parental Alienation.

I will undoubtedly be using this blog in part as a therapeutic venue. I will also use this blog as a communication portal to my children if they should choose to use it.

"Parental Alienation is about parents who place their own selfish needs above those of their defenseless children and in doing so, they deny them their right to love and be loved by both parents. Alienators do not fit the stereotype of the deficient and ill-equipment parent. Instead, these parents are generally articulate, resourceful, and competent in all other aspects of their lives – except in the realm of parenting. In fact, these individuals might easily be mistaken for ideal parents, except to the properly informed, because they profess love and concern for their children. What sets these individuals apart from other dysfunctional parents is their overwhelming commitment to meeting their own needs first. In doing so, they destroy the relationship their children have with the other parent – at whatever cost. ” Dr. Reena Sommer - Internationally Recognized Divorce and Custody Consultant
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Wednesday, February 24, 2010

Another missed opportunity...

I was sorry that you weren't in school today. I am also sorry that you weren't at the pickup location at 3.
I wish you were doing better in school than you are. School is very important. Probably one of the most important things you will be involved in.

I wish it weren't like this. You don't deserve what you are being put through. You will always know somewhere inside that I love you and fought for you. I do know that you will realize this in the future.

I had the opportunity to meet my biological father recently and found out the truths and the untruths. I am 44 years old.
I have a friend that gave me some words of encouragement last night by telling me simply that his son is now 47 years old and they now have a great relationship. He went through some simular alienation tactics as we have.
The lord will watch over you and over me.

I love you little girl,
DAD

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