Child(ren) Held Hostage

I hope this Blog will prove helpful in the recognition and useful in deterrence of Parental Alienation.

I will undoubtedly be using this blog in part as a therapeutic venue. I will also use this blog as a communication portal to my children if they should choose to use it.

"Parental Alienation is about parents who place their own selfish needs above those of their defenseless children and in doing so, they deny them their right to love and be loved by both parents. Alienators do not fit the stereotype of the deficient and ill-equipment parent. Instead, these parents are generally articulate, resourceful, and competent in all other aspects of their lives – except in the realm of parenting. In fact, these individuals might easily be mistaken for ideal parents, except to the properly informed, because they profess love and concern for their children. What sets these individuals apart from other dysfunctional parents is their overwhelming commitment to meeting their own needs first. In doing so, they destroy the relationship their children have with the other parent – at whatever cost. ” Dr. Reena Sommer - Internationally Recognized Divorce and Custody Consultant
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Friday, December 25, 2009

Merry Christmas 09'

Wow! Another year gone by. The greatest gifts I received this year was to have my wife and yes yes yes yes...my daughter with us this year. There was speculation that it wasn't going to happen, but it did! Brooke, you were great. You are an amazing kid. I am so sorry that you have to go home and be subjected to interigation.  I remeber when we would get home from the occasional outting and your mother would ask me and then you a lot of questions about where we had been, who we saw and what was said, what we had done, what we talked about? It was as though we couldn't have a relationship with anyone but her. I know that it is tough but now we do have a relationship that sometimes doesn't involve her. It involves her after you get home, but for now we have enjoyed that relationship without interference in any way.

I wonder why you haven't asked to call your mom this vacation? Is it because you made calls when you were with your freinds? Is it because you were having so much fun just being a kid? I'd like to think that you were just relaxed and not under pressure. We are going to meet with grandpa for breakfast then to great granny's then to Exxon at noon to drop you off. That will be a sad, sad, sad time for us. We are comforted in knowing that you will get to have time with your innocent little sister. I will write more later today.

I love you and will miss you so much. Merry Christmas honey, we are thinking about you and have you in our prayers.   DAD

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