Child(ren) Held Hostage

I hope this Blog will prove helpful in the recognition and useful in deterrence of Parental Alienation.

I will undoubtedly be using this blog in part as a therapeutic venue. I will also use this blog as a communication portal to my children if they should choose to use it.

"Parental Alienation is about parents who place their own selfish needs above those of their defenseless children and in doing so, they deny them their right to love and be loved by both parents. Alienators do not fit the stereotype of the deficient and ill-equipment parent. Instead, these parents are generally articulate, resourceful, and competent in all other aspects of their lives – except in the realm of parenting. In fact, these individuals might easily be mistaken for ideal parents, except to the properly informed, because they profess love and concern for their children. What sets these individuals apart from other dysfunctional parents is their overwhelming commitment to meeting their own needs first. In doing so, they destroy the relationship their children have with the other parent – at whatever cost. ” Dr. Reena Sommer - Internationally Recognized Divorce and Custody Consultant
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Friday, December 25, 2009

Merry Christmas

Here we are again. We had a great time at breakfast and with granny at her house. We only wish it could have been longer. I agree with you when you said having to go so soon sucked! I like your Carolina Jacket and all your other presents. I just got a call from Jack and Joanne. They are such good people. I really wish you could spend more time with them. I understand why they have been removed from your lives and it just isn't fair to you or your brother. They agreed to do supervised visitations at your moms request and everyones agreement. Your mother didn't realize that they were honorable people. They have the highest integrity of anyone I have ever met. They are your moms family and she didn't even know them when she asked her own great grandparents to stop visitation with us.
Now Jack and Joanne have lost their own son and family ties with the whole family. It's not fair to them either. I hope you will realize how much they have sacrificed for you.

We love you and they love you too. We will always be here for you.

Love,  DAD

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