Child(ren) Held Hostage

I hope this Blog will prove helpful in the recognition and useful in deterrence of Parental Alienation.

I will undoubtedly be using this blog in part as a therapeutic venue. I will also use this blog as a communication portal to my children if they should choose to use it.

"Parental Alienation is about parents who place their own selfish needs above those of their defenseless children and in doing so, they deny them their right to love and be loved by both parents. Alienators do not fit the stereotype of the deficient and ill-equipment parent. Instead, these parents are generally articulate, resourceful, and competent in all other aspects of their lives – except in the realm of parenting. In fact, these individuals might easily be mistaken for ideal parents, except to the properly informed, because they profess love and concern for their children. What sets these individuals apart from other dysfunctional parents is their overwhelming commitment to meeting their own needs first. In doing so, they destroy the relationship their children have with the other parent – at whatever cost. ” Dr. Reena Sommer - Internationally Recognized Divorce and Custody Consultant
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Friday, January 1, 2010

Back Home

We are back home now. Edward was a handfull but had a great time. He got to shoot a 20 guage shotgun for the first time. I tried to call you last night again on your mom's phone. Is the number the same as it has been for years? I have yet to talk to you when I have tried to call. When you are here with us and have called your mom, you have called her and talked to her at 336-829-1148.  I continue to keep the phone records to show you that I don't forget you. You have said that I don't call because you are by the phone at the court appointed time. I hope you have a mind of your own and the strength to question why we don't get to talk?



I would have liked to have talked to you and not just at the court appointed time. You are always on my mind and in my heart. I pray that you have an independant mind and are strong enough to be your own person.
This is a New Year and it promises to be a good year for us. We are continuing plans for our future and hope you are a part of it sooner than later.
 
I love you and miss you very much.       DAD

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