Child(ren) Held Hostage

I hope this Blog will prove helpful in the recognition and useful in deterrence of Parental Alienation.

I will undoubtedly be using this blog in part as a therapeutic venue. I will also use this blog as a communication portal to my children if they should choose to use it.

"Parental Alienation is about parents who place their own selfish needs above those of their defenseless children and in doing so, they deny them their right to love and be loved by both parents. Alienators do not fit the stereotype of the deficient and ill-equipment parent. Instead, these parents are generally articulate, resourceful, and competent in all other aspects of their lives – except in the realm of parenting. In fact, these individuals might easily be mistaken for ideal parents, except to the properly informed, because they profess love and concern for their children. What sets these individuals apart from other dysfunctional parents is their overwhelming commitment to meeting their own needs first. In doing so, they destroy the relationship their children have with the other parent – at whatever cost. ” Dr. Reena Sommer - Internationally Recognized Divorce and Custody Consultant
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Saturday, January 2, 2010

The Day After

I woke this morning with you on my mind and feeling kinda sad that we can't talk. I started thinking about how much we have missed in each others lives. Then I get a streak of disgust or anger or some type of feeling of disbelief. How could a father or a mother put a child through what you have been through. To be cut off from everyone connected to me. Your grandparents, cousins, aunt, uncles, and more importantly, ME! What kind of monster would do that?

It is said that the New Year will follow that of what you do or what happens on New Years in your life. Its a good thing I won't put much stock into that belief huh!

Last year we were at your uncle Kenny's house in West Virginia. I had hoped that our lives could mingle with his but I suppose we won't, atleast for now.
I called your uncle Kenney yesterday to wish him and his family a Happy New Year and I walked away feeling like I was only as good as what he could get from us. The conversation quickly turned to what he might could get from us, one of our vehichles. Wait a moment, didn't I already give him a van?  We gave him money and that didn't help him either.

Anyway, I miss and love you. I hope you are having fun today and always.

Love DAD
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