PAS

The child is both a weapon to be used against the other parent and a tool to make them feel emotionally complete. They are so consumed with themselves, their hatred, and the need to control, that they are only interested in their own needs. They refuse to see the pain and destruction they are causing in the life of their child. Even after the alienation is complete, a severe alienator will often continue to use the child and the courts to further their revenge on their previous spouse with excessive litigation, unnecessary bills and continued accusations of both physical and sexual abuse. Often they are not satisfied until they see the complete destruction of the other parent both emotionally and financially. They need the other parent branded as an "abuser" in order to feel good about themselves and their actions. These people are in desperate need of professional psychological help and extensive therapy. Although most will never get the help they need unless it is court ordered, which is rare indeed.