Child(ren) Held Hostage

I hope this Blog will prove helpful in the recognition and useful in deterrence of Parental Alienation.

I will undoubtedly be using this blog in part as a therapeutic venue. I will also use this blog as a communication portal to my children if they should choose to use it.

"Parental Alienation is about parents who place their own selfish needs above those of their defenseless children and in doing so, they deny them their right to love and be loved by both parents. Alienators do not fit the stereotype of the deficient and ill-equipment parent. Instead, these parents are generally articulate, resourceful, and competent in all other aspects of their lives – except in the realm of parenting. In fact, these individuals might easily be mistaken for ideal parents, except to the properly informed, because they profess love and concern for their children. What sets these individuals apart from other dysfunctional parents is their overwhelming commitment to meeting their own needs first. In doing so, they destroy the relationship their children have with the other parent – at whatever cost. ” Dr. Reena Sommer - Internationally Recognized Divorce and Custody Consultant
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Friday, January 29, 2010

The Day After

Well here we are. I woke this morning with you on my mind. I am still in dis-belief as to how a mother could be so vicious as to cause her children the damage that you and your brother have endured? The answers are simple when you know where to look. No one wants to believe that PAS happens.

Our system is not set up to deal with PAS. Unfortunately our children and society will suffer. It is a social problem. You and your brother suffer the consequences as do many others. I am truely sorry for what you have been through.
I intend to be a voice that is heard, though it will be a hard road. I may lose you but my voice will be heard in hopes of somehow helping the defenseless children cursed with having to be subjected to this illness.
We have had several evaluations and they have all had the same outcome. We have had several court appointed professionals that all arrive to the same conclusion, though our courts have been unable to save you and your brother as well as other defenseless children. It takes too long to get the courts involved and by then it is too late. We as parents choose to believe that we somehow can help our children by staying in the fight to remain in their lives. We love our children so much that we believe that we can somehow overcome the alienating parents sickness. We believe that if we try just a little harder that we will be able to overcome the lies and manipulations that are bestowed upon us. We would like to believe that the lies and manipulations are transparent. At least in this case, that is not always the case.

Both of the Guardian ad Litem's involved in our lives are very highly educated. One of them of them has been involed very closely while the other has not. One has made numerous unannounced home visits as well as  public appearances while the other has been behind the scenes. The one who is closely involved has had a
tragedy and will probably be unavailable for this next round of court hearings. This will also create a new tragedy. An opening presented itself and the alienator took it.

My life has been turned upside down for years and I have been willing stay in this fight because I love you and you are my child. You were a defenseless child. Parents don't want to believe anything bad about their children. I am no different but you are old enough that you should knoww the difference between right and wrong and what is the truth and what is not. I find it difficult to see that you know the difference.

I love you...DAD
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