Children Held Hostage

This Blog is for the purpose of looking into the lives of Children Held Hostage by Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS) by the hands of their parents, with the help of family members and others that knowingly and unknowingly get sucked into contributing to this hate crime. Using my own experiences I will use this Blog as an avenue to bring awareness to those that may have the ability to help our children and to encourage those who care to have courage to speak out to bring about change.

Child(ren) Held Hostage

I hope this Blog will prove helpful in the recognition and useful in deterrence of Parental Alienation.

I will undoubtedly be using this blog in part as a therapeutic venue. I will also use this blog as a communication portal to my children if they should choose to use it.

"Parental Alienation is about parents who place their own selfish needs above those of their defenseless children and in doing so, they deny them their right to love and be loved by both parents. Alienators do not fit the stereotype of the deficient and ill-equipment parent. Instead, these parents are generally articulate, resourceful, and competent in all other aspects of their lives – except in the realm of parenting. In fact, these individuals might easily be mistaken for ideal parents, except to the properly informed, because they profess love and concern for their children. What sets these individuals apart from other dysfunctional parents is their overwhelming commitment to meeting their own needs first. In doing so, they destroy the relationship their children have with the other parent – at whatever cost. ” Dr. Reena Sommer - Internationally Recognized Divorce and Custody Consultant
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Friday, May 28, 2010

Hard to believe...

It is hard to believe that self-discipline can mean freedom. In my old way of thinking, discipline meant work, a chore, or something to rebel against. I have learned that disciplining my reactions, keeping my "cool," rolling with the punches, and living one day at a time has brought order to my chaotic life. Self-discipline gives me a sense of accomplishment, self confidence, self-respect, and it frees me to go on to new endeavors.

Children Held Hostage