Child(ren) Held Hostage

I hope this Blog will prove helpful in the recognition and useful in deterrence of Parental Alienation.

I will undoubtedly be using this blog in part as a therapeutic venue. I will also use this blog as a communication portal to my children if they should choose to use it.

"Parental Alienation is about parents who place their own selfish needs above those of their defenseless children and in doing so, they deny them their right to love and be loved by both parents. Alienators do not fit the stereotype of the deficient and ill-equipment parent. Instead, these parents are generally articulate, resourceful, and competent in all other aspects of their lives – except in the realm of parenting. In fact, these individuals might easily be mistaken for ideal parents, except to the properly informed, because they profess love and concern for their children. What sets these individuals apart from other dysfunctional parents is their overwhelming commitment to meeting their own needs first. In doing so, they destroy the relationship their children have with the other parent – at whatever cost. ” Dr. Reena Sommer - Internationally Recognized Divorce and Custody Consultant
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Thursday, May 2, 2013

Another Adventure On The Horizon...

Well I suppose it is time for another adventure. It's amazing how children of PAS are so influenced by the alienating parent. It became a matter of loyalty for the child of PAS. It becomes a way of life. The alienating parent may face their own destruction when?...after the child of PAS have their own children? It wasn't until my egg donor (Linda) came in between my children and me that I decided not to be a victim of her craziness any longer. She became a sad woman to me, one that I never resumed a relationship with. I saw her more clearly after that. I searched for my own answers. Some of those answers I didn't like yet others finally made sense. Most of what I had been taught was Linda's twisted reality. I finally broke free from her and faced her and faced me.

All children are delivered into this world this way. I pray that all children of PAS will ask themselves from who and why they learned what they did. I am unable to teach you anything now that will change your minds about me or to rid you of what you know, what you were taught, or what you learned. I am so sorry that you were cheated of having me in your lives. You deserved more and you deserved both a father and a mother. You deserved a chance! 
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