Child(ren) Held Hostage

I hope this Blog will prove helpful in the recognition and useful in deterrence of Parental Alienation.

I will undoubtedly be using this blog in part as a therapeutic venue. I will also use this blog as a communication portal to my children if they should choose to use it.

"Parental Alienation is about parents who place their own selfish needs above those of their defenseless children and in doing so, they deny them their right to love and be loved by both parents. Alienators do not fit the stereotype of the deficient and ill-equipment parent. Instead, these parents are generally articulate, resourceful, and competent in all other aspects of their lives – except in the realm of parenting. In fact, these individuals might easily be mistaken for ideal parents, except to the properly informed, because they profess love and concern for their children. What sets these individuals apart from other dysfunctional parents is their overwhelming commitment to meeting their own needs first. In doing so, they destroy the relationship their children have with the other parent – at whatever cost. ” Dr. Reena Sommer - Internationally Recognized Divorce and Custody Consultant
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Friday, June 14, 2013

Comment on Dr. Phil's video last post...

Yes, I know that living the nightmare of PAS is hell and is equated to as living a slow death especially when it was alleged that I physically abused both sexually and mentally my children, by their mother. The idea that their mother was somehow protecting them and loved them was just part of her alienation and a way to gain control. It was then and is still now a mental illness on the part of the mother as her very own psychological tests (MMPI) indicates, not only once, but twice! Further discussion on psychological (MMPI) tests as well as other pertinent documents may be reserved for future posts.

It is unfortunate...for children to be stricken with the effects of mental illness that they have no ability to defend themselves against. We (victims) of PAS struggle with our own pain and of that of our lost child(ren). It becomes more difficult to endure when we realize how short life is. We find comfort in believing in a higher power. There is not any form of JUSTICE that can bring back the time lost or repay what was lost, to the parent (VICTIM) or to the child(ren) (VICTIM(S))! Then it is too late for it to matter much. We only pray for survival long enough to pass on our knowledge in hopes that somehow we can make a difference somewhere. I believe that I have made a difference. Not in my child(ren's) lives but in the lives of other children by making it LOUD and CLEAR to alienating parents that it is not okay the way they are conducting themselves with their child(ren), in front of their child(ren) so the child(ren) know that their parent is wrong in their tactics. When you see it, stop it!

It is sad that alienating parents sometimes have more children only to assault them with the same sicknesses they did with their child(ren) from the first alienated parent. Everyone else is crazy except the alienating parent!!! (SARCASM) In my case my children's mother remarried and had another child and most likely it won't be the last either. My children's mother incorporated her second husband prior to their marriage and continues today to assault her victims. From info passed on to me, it seems that it was almost immediate that my child was under attack and getting the full wrath of her mother's sickness when I was no longer available to be beat up on.. The step father played an important role in allowing his wife to continue her illness. I told her she was NUTS and her psychological (MMPI) tests confirmed it. More about those later.

I am mentally tired and wasted too much time this posting and will be back!

Protection of and for the children should be foremost,
ME

3 comments:

Unknown said...

Getting divorced/seperated?
Odds R you will face false allegations
(sexual)
Google : FMBK ANTEAU (Hundreds of results)
Present the 2-12-12 letter & other documents to Law Enforcement, DCFS Agents,
Child Abuse Detectives, School Officials, District Attorneys Office, Judges & the Public

PROTECT YOURSELF , LOVED ONES & OTHERS from CHILD ABUSE by DESIGN

Unknown said...

2-12-12 Child abuse by design

Indeed in the immediate situation with (Christine Cullen, Brian Winsick )either the allegations were scurrilous and a product of vitriol, and an attorney(PhD Psych) with who knows what motivation (7 Claims) and that these claims were worthy of public expense .Or these persons were aware the claims they were bringing were false and therefore not worthy of reporting to LAUISD/SMUSD or other parents.? The alternative is an admission of negligent lack of reasonable due diligence and surely a great lack of concern for the school both pupils and other teachers and parents has been flagrantly displayed in total disregard for the safety and welfare of minors. Whether this is or should be a concern for the bond holders of these persons I do not know. Mr. David J Glass, Glass family Law and former associate of (Kolodny & Anteau) One of the most respected family law firms in the United States (Mel Gibson Getty, etc.) has been investigated by the CA Bar already in this matter and while the complaint was not upheld a letter suggesting the possibility of civil redress was issued by them.

The APA also found he did no wrong apparently within their own ethics code.

The fact remains an Attorney/Psychologist and a Teacher and a Teacher/Coach surely have some duty to the community. The positions of trust and respect they are afforded should allow the general public a reasonableness within their expectation of propriety and protection of the innocent by such credentialed persons.

Perhaps the LAUSD/SMUSD could incorporate or suggest to the CA Bar a cooperative relationship of a professional nature that would allow this protection to be afforded our children as well as draft a code for the LAUSD/SMUSD’s own employees in such situations.

Certainly recent events could lead one to surmise that a better clarified way of maintaining the safety and welfare of our children, from both bonifide and false claims of abuse would be helpful. The harm that both real and imagined events can bring to families, as well as collateral persons and an institution such as children’s learning environment should be minimalized at all times.

Sincerely Yours,

Graham J Miller.

885 Avenue of the Americas

Penthouse 1A

New York. NY. 10001

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