Child(ren) Held Hostage

I hope this Blog will prove helpful in the recognition and useful in deterrence of Parental Alienation.

I will undoubtedly be using this blog in part as a therapeutic venue. I will also use this blog as a communication portal to my children if they should choose to use it.

"Parental Alienation is about parents who place their own selfish needs above those of their defenseless children and in doing so, they deny them their right to love and be loved by both parents. Alienators do not fit the stereotype of the deficient and ill-equipment parent. Instead, these parents are generally articulate, resourceful, and competent in all other aspects of their lives – except in the realm of parenting. In fact, these individuals might easily be mistaken for ideal parents, except to the properly informed, because they profess love and concern for their children. What sets these individuals apart from other dysfunctional parents is their overwhelming commitment to meeting their own needs first. In doing so, they destroy the relationship their children have with the other parent – at whatever cost. ” Dr. Reena Sommer - Internationally Recognized Divorce and Custody Consultant
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Saturday, June 15, 2013

Continuation from last post...

So I purposely left out the "I am innocent of all allegations of any and all abuse towards my children by my children's mother"! That will come in time with the supporting documents. At the moment, I am conflicted as to what I want to do about sharing that information. It is still very painful and probably always will be. It is something I have learned to live with. Allegations of abuse by my children's mother started almost immediately after I refused to give her what she wanted and separation was imminent. That's not what broke the camels back so to speak. After the mother retained another attorney, number 6 or 9, (I lost count)  and the legal ramifications of my daughters allegations of assault against my AWESOME wife, it was time to walk away! I felt I had a bigger responsibility to protect my wife than to remain a part of my child's life.

Ironically had my daughter's mother played the assault card against my daughter's step mother in the beginning, I would have saved lots of time, energy, and money as I would have ended the madness long before I did!

Gotta go for now but will be back,
ME

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