Child(ren) Held Hostage

I hope this Blog will prove helpful in the recognition and useful in deterrence of Parental Alienation.

I will undoubtedly be using this blog in part as a therapeutic venue. I will also use this blog as a communication portal to my children if they should choose to use it.

"Parental Alienation is about parents who place their own selfish needs above those of their defenseless children and in doing so, they deny them their right to love and be loved by both parents. Alienators do not fit the stereotype of the deficient and ill-equipment parent. Instead, these parents are generally articulate, resourceful, and competent in all other aspects of their lives – except in the realm of parenting. In fact, these individuals might easily be mistaken for ideal parents, except to the properly informed, because they profess love and concern for their children. What sets these individuals apart from other dysfunctional parents is their overwhelming commitment to meeting their own needs first. In doing so, they destroy the relationship their children have with the other parent – at whatever cost. ” Dr. Reena Sommer - Internationally Recognized Divorce and Custody Consultant
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Thursday, August 29, 2013

Good to be back...

Good to be back with my better half. Whew, what a long week! I am blessed to have such a loving wife!
It took the loss of  two marriages and a lot of life's crap to get to where I am now, where I am happy to be. There is something to be said for failures. I failed in many areas of my life. I have to ask if I really failed or is it just perceived failures, just stepping stones to the successes that I live today. My perception of success is quite different than it used to be. I only wish I had had the wisdom 20-30 years ago that I have today. I suppose that that's why its called WISDOM.
Without having had two parents to nurture and guide me, I could not have had the WISDOM to make the best of decisions.

So many thoughts running through my head. I take time to put them out there on this blog and then let them go. As my last post indicates, "suffering is optional".

Time to enjoy my successes by culling the garden!

Onward
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