Child(ren) Held Hostage

I hope this Blog will prove helpful in the recognition and useful in deterrence of Parental Alienation.

I will undoubtedly be using this blog in part as a therapeutic venue. I will also use this blog as a communication portal to my children if they should choose to use it.

"Parental Alienation is about parents who place their own selfish needs above those of their defenseless children and in doing so, they deny them their right to love and be loved by both parents. Alienators do not fit the stereotype of the deficient and ill-equipment parent. Instead, these parents are generally articulate, resourceful, and competent in all other aspects of their lives – except in the realm of parenting. In fact, these individuals might easily be mistaken for ideal parents, except to the properly informed, because they profess love and concern for their children. What sets these individuals apart from other dysfunctional parents is their overwhelming commitment to meeting their own needs first. In doing so, they destroy the relationship their children have with the other parent – at whatever cost. ” Dr. Reena Sommer - Internationally Recognized Divorce and Custody Consultant
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Thursday, May 24, 2012

Triggered Memories...

So this morning a memory was triggered and I wanted to put it out there as well as my thoughts about it. The last time I saw your mother was in Child Support court in August of 2011. *Your mother stated "My son still lives at home with me and just because he is 18 doesn't mean there aren't expenses)! "He still has needs that need to be met". "There's clothing and food and insurance". She further stated that she believed that I should continue to financially be responsible for her son because his needs didn't end just because he is 18. You may never see this again but I in part agree with her statement. A parents responsibility (financial or emotional) support seems to be never ending However, you, your mother, and I believe in part, your grandmother, (by way of condoning and actively contributing to the alienation tactics) relieved me of all my responsibilities when you were six years old. Your mother and you both stated that I wasn't your father. I have not been in your life since you were six.
My responsibilities ended when you turned 18 years old. I pray that you will wait to have a child until you have worked out some things you undoubtedly need to. I pray even more that you don't have any children and have to endure anything like I have when it comes to you children.

I pray that you will never suffer the life of agony of losing your child(ren)!

I pray,

Love Dad

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